Passport rules snag child support cash By KEVIN FREKING, Associated Press Writer Tue Aug 14, 3:34 PM ET The price of a passport: $311,491 in back child support payments for a U.S. businessman now living in China; $46,000 for a musician seeking to perform overseas, and $45,849 for a man ...
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| Passport rules snag child support cash
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I don't think handing over 5 or 6 figure sums all at once is really a good idea though. The parent receiving the support is more likely to buy themselves a new car or vacation than spend the money on the child in that instance. | ||||
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| that's because they haven't been able to do any of the other things they would have done had they gotten the money when they were supposed to. they had to scrape to make ends meet and the money is owed to them. what they do with it is their business. | ||||
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| Originally Posted by Linzyhop Legally speaking your last sentence is entirely incorrect. Child Support payments are legally required to be spent only on the child.
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| Originally Posted by Phantom Mmm. Just what we need. The government telling people they are too irresponsible to get THEIR money back the government will decide how much you get and when.
Bad fucking idea. | ||||
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| no actually because they're "back payments". they already spent most of their original money on the child and had to forgo things they would have gotten for themselves if the child payments had been on time. perhaps a new(er) car to replace the one that kept breaking down. Perhaps a vacation with child to disney world. if they want to do these things now that they have the money, that is their business. | ||||
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| I know somebody payin' child support for one of his kids His baby momma's car crib is bigger than his You will see him on TV, any given Sunday Win the Superbowl and drive off in a Hyundai She was supposed to buy ya shorty Tyco with ya money She went to the doctor got lipo with ya money She walkin' around lookin' like Michael with ya money Shoulda' got that insured, GEICO for ya moneeey | ||||
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| It seems like a good method of retrieving the money, but I disagree with forced child support (beyond agreements) anyway. | ||||
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| Originally Posted by Kytro um, child support is forced usually because most guys who would get the girl pregnant and take off would need to be forced to pay their part.
of course there are very decent guys out there who would step up, but more often than not, it's the first example. | ||||
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| Originally Posted by Linzyhop I realise why it is in place, and it should exist ig both people want to raise a child and then later recant support.
If, however the father does not want to raise a child, then if the woman wishes to raise it anyway, they should should have to do so off thier own resources. I simply don't support the concept that having sex means automatically supporting any decision made thereafter. There is a big difference between sex and raising a family. | ||||
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| no es mi culpa Independent Beantown ![]()
| Originally Posted by Kytro it's called being responsible for your actions.
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| It seems to me if a woman, on her own, has a baby and wants to raise it herself (not give up for adoption), she is responsible for that situation. The idea of child support only makes sense in the cases where the parents agreed to have a baby together and things didn't work out. Otherwise, the woman is really 100% responsible for her situation and shouldn't have any basis for asking for help beyond giving the child up for adoption or getting an abortion. | ||||
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| no es mi culpa Independent Beantown ![]()
| Originally Posted by Phantom no, not really because not everyone believes in abortion. and just because it's the women who has to carry the baby, it's automatically the woman's fault or choice to keep the baby.
it takes two to tango. | ||||
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| Baka Idealist Adelaide, Australia ![]()
| That does not mean you are also responsible for other people's choices. As far as I am concerned if someone chooses to raise a child, agaisnt the wishes of the father, they should should the responsiiblity of that choice themselves, it is perfectly reasonable. | ||||
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| Originally Posted by Linzyhop I don't really care what someon's personal beliefs are, that shouldn't factor into responsibility.
You said it a women can choose to have sex, carry a child, and to keep it and not adopt it out, yet a man should be responsible for all those choices even though he only makes a the choice to have sex? I completely disagree with the concept. People should be responsible for the choices they make, including women when they choose to raise a child without support. | ||||
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| no es mi culpa Independent Beantown ![]()
| Originally Posted by Kytro so what would happen if the father's beliefs stated an abortion was "against god" and wanted the mother to have the baby, but the mother didn't want to. is it up to the father then to do something since he created this baby?
if you're going to have sex, two people should have the responsibility of having and providing for that baby. abortion should only be necessary in cases of rape or where the child is severly handicapped or where the birth is going to be life/death for the mother. just because someone doesn't want it is not a good enough excuse for me. | ||||
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| Originally Posted by Linzyhop Of course not, you can only make decision for yourself, not others.
Originally Posted by Linzyhop I disagree, if you decide to raise a child then those that make that decision should also provide. I fail to see why having sex automatically means you should be held responsible for subsequent decisions unless you have indicated you will.
Originally Posted by Linzyhop It is a personal decision, but there are always other options.
Originally Posted by Linzyhop What is the difference between a man not wanting to raise a child, and a woman wanting to (rather than abortion or adoption). Both are what someone wants or does not want to do.
There are circumstances where support should be required, but not simply because the woman wants to raise the child. Certainly they have every right to raise a child if they so choose, or not, but to compel another to support that is an entirely different thing. The way I see it: Both parties decide to have sex, but they disagree on raising a child. A woman does not believe in / want an abortion / adoption, this is fair enough but why should a man have to support this? Because he had sex? Because the reverse does not apply, it isn't a fair position and thus I cannot support it | ||||
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| Originally Posted by Kytro well, that's where we disagree. fortunately for the rest of the world, the law agrees with me.
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