So my girlfriend told me today she wants to be married by the end of the year

RockPusher · 01-21-2008, 07:19 PM

Originally Posted by ballz2wallz

Did you ask her who she was planning to marry?

David Octavius · 01-21-2008, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by ballz2wallz

Married by the end of the year? Are you engaged?

Ardentfrost · 01-21-2008, 07:47 PM

Tell her to keep dreaming.

ballz2wallz · 01-21-2008, 08:36 PM

Originally Posted by RockPusher

Did you ask her who she was planning to marry?

ballz2wallz · 01-21-2008, 08:37 PM

Originally Posted by David Octavius

Married by the end of the year? Are you engaged?

Not yet. But she's always said she's not gonna wait a year, so as soon as we do get engaged, it'll prolly be like 4 months before we get married. So, I haven't asked her. But this is the first I heard she was planning on being married by the end of the year

7960 · 01-21-2008, 11:47 PM

Originally Posted by ballz2wallz

Not yet. But she's always said she's not gonna wait a year, so as soon as we do get engaged, it'll prolly be like 4 months before we get married. So, I haven't asked her. But this is the first I heard she was planning on being married by the end of the year

and if you choose not to ask her by the end of the year?

what then?

jimeigh · 01-22-2008, 12:43 AM

tell her you want to have anal sex by the end of the year

WickedLou9 · 01-22-2008, 07:02 AM

Originally Posted by ballz2wallz

Not yet. But she's always said she's not gonna wait a year, so as soon as we do get engaged, it'll prolly be like 4 months before we get married. So, I haven't asked her. But this is the first I heard she was planning on being married by the end of the year

I hope she wants a small wedding on 4 months notice

Linzyhop · 01-22-2008, 09:13 AM

whoa dude. considering everything that has happened between you guys... don't you think she's jumping the boat a little? i mean, like back in November......

um yeaaaahhhhhhhh............

and what about the other dude. he's gonna like flip his lid.

Roonie · 01-22-2008, 10:34 AM

Good for her. It is time to reveal your hand. She needs to know if you are serious or just wasting her time. Sounds like she wants to settle down and have kids. She sounds like a strong woman and someone I could respect.

David Octavius · 01-22-2008, 11:23 AM

Is this framed as an ultimatum? If so that sucks - especially if you guys have a history of drama as Linzy seems to imply

Stylerod · 01-22-2008, 11:28 AM

Originally Posted by David Octavius

Is this framed as an ultimatum? If so that sucks - especially if you guys have a history of drama as Linzy seems to imply

Yeah, I gotta agree with this one.

We need more history.

DosEquis · 01-22-2008, 11:34 AM

i'd run like the ginger bread man.

Stylerod · 01-22-2008, 11:39 AM

And if she is one of those that is going to demand a HUGE expensive ring.... Trade her in for a more reasonable model.

Linzyhop · 01-22-2008, 01:16 PM

whoa whoa whoa fellas....

i'm not one to give info on something that's really has nothing to do with me, so I won't, but his gf is a good catch. very sweet, awesome all around gal. don't get me wrong. i just think if it is an ultimatum, it's kindof undeserved.

you DID just move there sort of to be near her...... not even, um 2 months ago......

7960 · 01-22-2008, 01:25 PM

Originally Posted by Linzyhop

whoa whoa whoa fellas....

i'm not one to give info on something that's really has nothing to do with me...............

Originally Posted by Linzyhop

don't you think she's jumping the boat a little? i mean, like back in November......

and what about the other dude. he's gonna like flip his lid.

too late.

Linzyhop · 01-22-2008, 01:33 PM

Originally Posted by 7960

too late.

dude. that's not me giving info. if you read any other stuff Ballz has written about her on here, that's repeating other stuff.

besides. i think that's pretty generic, and you all know when he moved to TN anyway.

RockPusher · 01-22-2008, 01:45 PM

Originally Posted by ballz2wallz

I just jest of course. Is she your best friend?

ballz2wallz · 01-22-2008, 06:08 PM

Hmm, of course that's what SHE'D see as ideal. She of course realizes a lot has to happen first, like me asking

Yes, she's my best friend.

Yes, there have been some issues that we've had to work on, but they only come once. Isn't every relationship filled with things to work on? Isn't the desire to make them better the thing to look for?