:drudge: I'm engaged! :drudge: - Page 2
Suggestion: fuck the ceremony, just elope. Ceremonies are a lot of fucking headache....
Suggestion: fuck the ceremony, just elope. Ceremonies are a lot of fucking headache....
09-10-2006, 11:59 PM
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| For those about to rock...  libertarian Atlanta, GA 
| Suggestion: fuck the ceremony, just elope. Ceremonies are a lot of fucking headache. | ||||
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09-11-2006, 06:26 AM
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| minor irritant &/or non-entity News Moderator Contrarian Birmingham, UK
| NICE ONE! Its a a surefire ratings winner. I'm sure the shows numerous exec producers will manage to find plenty of strands even in a 'small wedding' I am of course heart-broken tho' | ||||
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09-11-2006, 10:43 AM
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| Publius' Bish  Independent Richardson, TX
| Originally Posted by Ardentfrost 
 my parents are already going to be annoyed with me for not telling them about the engagement, i don't really want to elope and then have them murder me. | ||||
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09-11-2006, 01:23 PM
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| One American Family at a Time.  Idealist The OC, California
| You know, I didn't have a huge wedding myself. We got married in Vegas, at the Bellagio. I did the dress, we had flowers, took nice pictures, it was good. I love Vegas for weddings, because you can seriously do whatever you want, and fit it to what you want out of that day...  | ||||
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09-11-2006, 02:01 PM
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| For those about to rock... libertarian Atlanta, GA
| Originally Posted by Sheana Why on earth haven't you told them yet? I mean, you fucking live with them, how do they not know??!
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09-11-2006, 02:25 PM
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| Publius' Bish Independent Richardson, TX
| Originally Posted by Ardentfrost i kinda feel like a bum still living with them and all. i don't wanna tell them till I move out or at least looking for an apartment. i take the ring off when i'm around them and sometimes forget to put it back on like this morning
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09-11-2006, 02:26 PM
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| For those about to rock... libertarian Atlanta, GA
| Originally Posted by Sheana I don't see why you wouldn't tell them, but I don't know your parents
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09-11-2006, 02:30 PM
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| Liberty, now and forever  Libertarian Party DFW
| Originally Posted by Ardentfrost I don't see why she doesn't either, and I do kind of know them.
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09-11-2006, 02:31 PM
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| For those about to rock... libertarian Atlanta, GA
| Originally Posted by Publius ibshe'sashamedofyou
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09-11-2006, 02:33 PM
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| Liberty, now and forever Libertarian Party DFW
| Originally Posted by Ardentfrost
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09-11-2006, 02:45 PM
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| Braccae tuae aperiuntur.  Reform Party NJ
| Originally Posted by Publius Aren't you living with them? You're living in their house, engaged to their daughter and she won't tell her folks? That seems strange.
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09-11-2006, 02:48 PM
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| Liberty, now and forever Libertarian Party DFW
| Originally Posted by JaJae
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09-11-2006, 03:09 PM
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| Braccae tuae aperiuntur. Reform Party NJ
| If you can't tell your parents while your bf is living with you, why accept the ring? It's not my place. I'm just confused. You say you know her parents and don't get it. If you're not ready to tell the world you're engaged perhaps you shouldn't be. | ||||
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09-11-2006, 03:26 PM
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| Junkie  Conservative Party
| Originally Posted by Ardentfrost maybe she is really a man
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09-11-2006, 04:15 PM
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| One American Family at a Time. Idealist The OC, California
| I can see why she might not want to tell them yet... I didn't want to tell my parents until I had a "plan". Because if you don't have a "Plan" sometimes they want to make it for you... | ||||
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09-11-2006, 04:23 PM
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| Pinko Commie Bastard  Communist Moscow
| Originally Posted by IminWonderland I agree, there is no reason to deal with added pressure or stress from telling them something which they do not currently need to know
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09-11-2006, 05:17 PM
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| One American Family at a Time. Idealist The OC, California
| Originally Posted by thomez Seriously....all these major life changes, marriage, babies, when you tell other people, sometimes especially parents, suddenly they think it concerns them more than it really does. With these types of events, everyone that's close, or sometimes not even close gets to come out and tell you how to do it.
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09-11-2006, 05:39 PM
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| Publius' Bish Independent Richardson, TX
| Originally Posted by JaJae I know i'm gonna marry him one day, so why wait to get engaged.
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09-11-2006, 05:41 PM
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| For those about to rock... libertarian Atlanta, GA
| Originally Posted by Sheana I don't think that's what anyone was asking.
No one seems to understand why you're hiding your engagement from your parents when it should be a happy time. | ||||
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09-11-2006, 05:51 PM
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| Publius' Bish Independent Richardson, TX
| I feel like I’m mooching off my parents as things are right now. I just want them to be proud of me and happy about my decision rather than making them feel like we’re mooching off of them. While I’m still living at home I feel like a child. I feel like if they know I’m engaged they won’t take it seriously. They didn’t know about my previous engagement till they read the word “fiancé” in his obituary. I just want to have my feet on the ground and all my crap straight so they don’t have to worry about me. I don’t want all the “How are you two going to take care of yourselves…” “Are you sure you’re ready for this, you don’t even have your own place…” I know my parents will ask that crap and I just don’t’ wanna deal with it yet. As soon as we have the money to support ourselves I’m going to sit everyone down and tell them, then have a big party.  it's hard to explain | ||||
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