13 year old lies about her age, sends second man to jail after they have sex

[motivez]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

Don't fuck someone you don't know. If you are an adult and know so little about someone to not know she is 13, you shouldn't be fucking her.

So no one is allowed to have casual sexual encounters?

You're missing the point: He was lied to.

[Stylerod]

Originally Posted by motivez

So no one is allowed to have casual sexual encounters?

You're missing the point: He was lied to.

No, have as many as you can. But if she said she was on the pill and gets pregnant, or says she had an STD screening the day before but gives you the aids, or says she is 18 but is really 13, you have no right to bitch about it. "Casual sexual encounters" are a risky behavior in more ways than one. And these guys are learning their lesson.

[7960]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

No, have as many as you can. But if she said she was on the pill and gets pregnant, or says she had an STD screening the day before but gives you the aids, or says she is 18 but is really 13, you have no right to bitch about it. "Casual sexual encounters" are a risky behavior in more ways than one. And these guys are learning their lesson.

but he doesn't lose his freedom for her lie about the pill.
he doesn't lose his freedom for her lie about an STD.

but you want to take away his freedom because of her lie about her age even though she very well may be responsible enough to know the effects of that lie............ that's wrong.

[Stylerod]

Originally Posted by 7960

but he doesn't lose his freedom for her lie about the pill.
he doesn't lose his freedom for her lie about an STD.

but you want to take away his freedom because of her lie about her age even though she very well may be responsible enough to know the effects of that lie............ that's wrong.

Any and all of those lies are wrong. And rushing into sex with someone you don't know can lead into all kinds of bad things. In the end, these guys were the adults and should have known better.

[jimeigh]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

Any and all of those lies are wrong. And rushing into sex with someone you don't know can lead into all kinds of bad things. In the end, these guys were the adults and should have known better.

known better.... than to have sex?

[Stylerod]

Originally Posted by jimeigh

known better.... than to have sex?

I explained myself. Think a tad harder, it's not that difficult.

[thewise1]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

Any and all of those lies are wrong. And rushing into sex with someone you don't know can lead into all kinds of bad things. In the end, these guys were the adults and should have known better.

This 'logic' baffles me.

[Stylerod]

Originally Posted by thewise1

This 'logic' baffles me.

What logic? It's common sense! If you were a dog or a rabbit I could understand that not wanting to fuck everything with it's tail in the air might be confusing. As humans, we need to be a little more cautious.

[thewise1]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

What logic? It's common sense! If you were a dog or a rabbit I could understand that not wanting to fuck everything with it's tail in the air might be confusing. As humans, we need to be a little more cautious.

He WAS cautious. As far as he could tell, she was legal.

[7960]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

Any and all of those lies are wrong. And rushing into sex with someone you don't know can lead into all kinds of bad things. In the end, these guys were the adults and should have known better.

and we're full circle back to jimeigh's "don't be lied to"

that's akin to sitting at a bar when two random guys start fighting and one ends up smashing you with a chair and you saying "it's your fault; don't get hit"

[7960]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

What logic? It's common sense! If you were a dog or a rabbit I could understand that not wanting to fuck everything with it's tail in the air might be confusing. As humans, we need to be a little more cautious.

So if you're talking to a girl and she says she's 18 and she looks 18 and she gives some evidence and information about being 18.............exactly what else would you do before having sex with her?

I'm really confused........how far do you go to verify a girl's age?

[thewise1]

Originally Posted by 7960

So if you're talking to a girl and she says she's 18 and she looks 18 and she gives some evidence and information about being 18.............exactly what else would you do before having sex with her?

I'm really confused........how far do you go to verify a girl's age?

The Stylerod-inator just doesn't have sex. Problem solved, risk averted. Besides, the hand doesn't try to cuddle afterward. Usually

[Stylerod]

Originally Posted by thewise1

The Stylerod-inator just doesn't have sex. Problem solved, risk averted. Besides, the hand doesn't try to cuddle afterward. Usually

[Stylerod]

Originally Posted by 7960

So if you're talking to a girl and she says she's 18 and she looks 18 and she gives some evidence and information about being 18.............exactly what else would you do before having sex with her?

I'm really confused........how far do you go to verify a girl's age?

At least get to know her first. Meet her friends, family. Talk to people that know her or go to school with her. Doesn't seem that difficult.

One night stands might be fun, but sometimes that "one night" turns into a lifetime of problems. Hell, a guy I work with who is a great guy LOVES one night stands. He used to come into work bragging about them all the time (and I gotta admit, it was a blast listening to his stories). But now he is financially supporting two kids that he has no contact with because of it. He didn't even know one of the mothers last names until he got served papers.

[thewise1]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

At least get to know her first. Meet her friends, family. Talk to people that know her or go to school with her. Doesn't seem that difficult.

One night stands might be fun, but sometimes that "one night" turns into a lifetime of problems. Hell, a guy I work with who is a great guy LOVES one night stands. He used to come into work bragging about them all the time (and I gotta admit, it was a blast listening to his stories). But now he is financially supporting two kids that he has no contact with because of it. He didn't even know one of the mothers last names until he got served papers.

I mean, I agree that people should do that. But you would legislate that morality on us all?

[Stylerod]

Originally Posted by thewise1

I mean, I agree that people should do that. But you would legislate that morality on us all?

Where the fuck did I ever say that??? Read what I said, don't make shit up.

[Ardentfrost]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

Where the fuck did I ever say that??? Read what I said, don't make shit up.

You're saying people shouldn't be promiscuous because they might get lied to and therefore be unwittingly breaking the law. The jest of that is "don't be promiscuous" which is legislating morality.

[7960]

Originally Posted by Stylerod

At least get to know her first. Meet her friends, family. Talk to people that know her or go to school with her. Doesn't seem that difficult.

I knew my wife for nearly a year before I found out she lied about her age. She said she's 2 years older than me but it turns out she's almost 4 years older than me.

I guess I should have gotten to know her first, met her friends and family, talked to people who knew her and went to school with her.

Oh wait, I did

[Stylerod]

Originally Posted by Ardentfrost

You're saying people shouldn't be promiscuous because they might get lied to and therefore be unwittingly breaking the law. The jest of that is "don't be promiscuous" which is legislating morality.

You can't be serious. Me saying these guys needed more self control is the same thing as "legislating morality?" You might need to read what you wrote again because you are smarter than that.