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Old 09-23-2006, 01:26 AM   #1
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OK, my Mom is a born again Christian. She ministers to youth in her new town that she lives in, and holds Bible Study for teens out of her home.

She was telling me that she thought it was great that she was having so many teens coming over to God, and that so many of them are asking to baptized.

Now, the parents aren't really involved with their kids going over there, and we all know how kids are when they are teens about telling their parents stuff.

She told me that she tells them what it means (to her) to be a Christian, and explains scripture about being "saved" and "Born Again", and she says, that after she tells them this, that they ask her to "save" them after hearing this once.

So what I want to know is...

Is this moral?
Is it right, in a Christian sense to do this without parents actually knowing?
Can a 14 year old really make a decision like that after one Bible Study?

Why doesn't this make sense to me?

Just looking for another perspective on this, it rubs me the wrong way...
 
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Old 09-23-2006, 02:36 AM   #2
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Originally Posted by IminWonderland View Post
OK, my Mom is a born again Christian. She ministers to youth in her new town that she lives in, and holds Bible Study for teens out of her home.

She was telling me that she thought it was great that she was having so many teens coming over to God, and that so many of them are asking to baptized.

Now, the parents aren't really involved with their kids going over there, and we all know how kids are when they are teens about telling their parents stuff.

She told me that she tells them what it means (to her) to be a Christian, and explains scripture about being "saved" and "Born Again", and she says, that after she tells them this, that they ask her to "save" them after hearing this once.

So what I want to know is...

Is this moral?
Is it right, in a Christian sense to do this without parents actually knowing?
Can a 14 year old really make a decision like that after one Bible Study?

Why doesn't this make sense to me?

Just looking for another perspective on this, it rubs me the wrong way...
I would say it's okay for them (the children) to do it without their parents' consent or knowledge, much like I believe that kids should be able to see a psychologist without their parents' consent or knowledge.

Right off the bat, I'd say your mother's actions are immoral. She seemingly has an agenda, and that is to get 'em while they're young. She has ulterior motives.

I don't think a 14yr old has the capacity to understand religion or politics.
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Old 09-23-2006, 04:07 PM   #3
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These kids are very able to understand religion and politics, if they want to. These kids are at the time in their lives where they are becoming their own persons, they are beginning to think for themselves, and certainly religion is in their capabilities.

How is it immoral for your mom to provide Bible studies? Are these kids being forced by your mom to listen to her? Are they being forced to go? All your mom is doing is providing what the kids came there to hear. They want to learn about God and Christianity...she's giving it to them. Better yet, not only is your mom not forcing anything on them, but she's only explaining what it means to her, as you've stated. It's up to the kids to make that ultimate decision.

I think it only rubs you the wrong way because you don't like Christianity
 
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Old 09-23-2006, 05:41 PM   #4
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Originally Posted by ballz2wallz View Post

How is it immoral for your mom to provide Bible studies? Are these kids being forced by your mom to listen to her? Are they being forced to go? All your mom is doing is providing what the kids came there to hear. They want to learn about God and Christianity...she's giving it to them. Better yet, not only is your mom not forcing anything on them, but she's only explaining what it means to her, as you've stated. It's up to the kids to make that ultimate decision.
Would you feel the same way if she was preaching Islam and had all these kids showing up to listen?
What if she was preaching the militant Islam, would it still be ok with you? Afterall those kids are capable of making their own descisions and she wouldn't be forcing it on them.
 
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Old 09-23-2006, 05:56 PM   #5
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Would you feel the same way if she was preaching Islam and had all these kids showing up to listen?
Why wouldn't I feel the same? They do it now I'm sure. I don't complain.


What if she was preaching the militant Islam, would it still be ok with you? Afterall those kids are capable of making their own descisions and she wouldn't be forcing it on them.
I don't think anybody should be teaching people to break the law.
 
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Old 09-23-2006, 05:57 PM   #6
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Originally Posted by ballz2wallz View Post
I don't think anybody should be teaching people to break the law.
There is no law breaking in the bible?
 
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Originally Posted by Scrumtralecent View Post
There is no law breaking in the bible?
 
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Old 09-23-2006, 06:04 PM   #8
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Originally Posted by ballz2wallz View Post
Incest, Bestiality, murder..none of those things are in the bible?
 
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Originally Posted by ballz2wallz View Post
These kids are very able to understand religion and politics, if they want to. These kids are at the time in their lives where they are becoming their own persons, they are beginning to think for themselves, and certainly religion is in their capabilities.
All-inclusive exposure is more appropriate appropriate for these kids. They don't know shit about politics or religion. Eveangelicals have started the home-schooling "movement" to prevent their children from being exposed to things that they regard as "unChristian." This lady is attempting to do the same thing ... not advising the children to look into other religions or search for alternative world views. It may not necessarily be imposing, but it's certainly a persuasive technique. Rather, it's a fucking sales pitch.

How is it immoral for your mom to provide Bible studies? Are these kids being forced by your mom to listen to her? Are they being forced to go? All your mom is doing is providing what the kids came there to hear. They want to learn about God and Christianity...she's giving it to them. Better yet, not only is your mom not forcing anything on them, but she's only explaining what it means to her, as you've stated. It's up to the kids to make that ultimate decision.
Does she also teach them that things which require no proof for belief also require no proof to disbelieve? Is she going to teach them that, empirically, there is no difference between believing in a deity that exists within Christianity and believing in one that exists in Hinduism? Has she taught them the difference between "faith" and "knowledge," or does she, herself, know the difference? What about non-exclusive biblical stories? Has she taught them about the multitude of Christ-figure stories that predate the Jesus account? Or the other "great flood" stories?

I highly doubt it. That's why it's wrong. Whether she knows it or not, she's being manipulative.


I think it only rubs you the wrong way because you don't like Christianity
I have a big problem with imposing beliefs onto children ... and this is pretty fucking borderline.
 
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Old 09-23-2006, 06:28 PM   #10
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Originally Posted by Scrumtralecent View Post
Incest, Bestiality, murder..none of those things are in the bible?
And that's a modest list. There's also genocide, rape, human sacrifice, slavery, and so much more...
 
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Originally Posted by Scrumtralecent View Post
Incest, Bestiality, murder..none of those things are in the bible?
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And that's a modest list. There's also genocide, rape, human sacrifice, slavery, and so much more...
I'm not sure what you're trying to argue here.

I said that nobody should teach people, kids especially, to do illegal things...in response to your 'militant class' question.

And you ask if these things are in the Bible? Are you suggesting that her mom is teaching these kids to partake in incest, bestiality, and murder because the Bible tells them to?
 
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Originally Posted by Dumpy Dooby View Post
Eveangelicals have started the home-schooling "movement" to prevent their children from being exposed to things that they regard as "unChristian."
Evangelicals haven't started anything. This is a Bible study where people go to fellowship and learn. Bible studies have been around since the beginning of Christianity.


Does she also teach them that things which require no proof for belief also require no proof to disbelieve? Is she going to teach them that, empirically, there is no difference between believing in a deity that exists within Christianity and believing in one that exists in Hinduism? Has she taught them the difference between "faith" and "knowledge," or does she, herself, know the difference? What about non-exclusive biblical stories? Has she taught them about the multitude of Christ-figure stories that predate the Jesus account? Or the other "great flood" stories?

I highly doubt it. That's why it's wrong. Whether she knows it or not, she's being manipulative.



I have a big problem with imposing beliefs onto children ... and this is pretty fucking borderline.
She's not there to teach an academic lesson on religion or philosophy in general. She's there to teach the kids about Christianity, God, and the Bible. That's what they went there for.
 
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Originally Posted by ballz2wallz View Post
Evangelicals haven't started anything. This is a Bible study where people go to fellowship and learn. Bible studies have been around since the beginning of Christianity.
80% of the students at Patrick Henry University (an evangelical university in VA) were home schooled their entire life. Evangelicals do encourage home-schooling children as a means of not exposing them to "ungodly" things.

She's not there to teach an academic lesson on religion or philosophy in general. She's there to teach the kids about Christianity, God, and the Bible. That's what they went there for.
Okay, I see your point. Nevertheless, I think she has ulterior motives. Her goal is to get new converts.
 
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Originally Posted by Dumpy Dooby View Post
And that's a modest list. There's also genocide, rape, human sacrifice, slavery, and so much more...
And all of it is argued outside of the context from both sides.
 
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Originally Posted by Dumpy Dooby View Post
And that's a modest list. There's also genocide, rape, human sacrifice, slavery, and so much more...
I was starting slow.
 
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And all of it is argued outside of the context from both sides.
No, actually there isn't. The Bible literally has all of those things in it. The only arguments otherwise are those that say it's all allegorical ... and even those people admit that it's in there but try to resolve the negative aspects of it by assigning it some positive symbolism.
 
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Originally Posted by Dumpy Dooby View Post
80% of the students at Patrick Henry University (an evangelical university in VA) were home schooled their entire life. Evangelicals do encourage home-schooling children as a means of not exposing them to "ungodly" things.
I won't deny that many families homeschool, but it's not solely to keep them protected. It's also to provide them a better education if they can't afford a public school. Trust me, after my high school experience, my parents now realize they probably should have sent me to another school or homeschooled me. However, that's not what's goin on here.
 
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I have a problem with people presenting religion as fact.
Do you have a problem with people practicing religion?
 
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Incest, Bestiality, murder..none of those things are in the bible?
none backed by Jesus.
 
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